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I AM A WOMAN WHO SPEAK UP HER MIND!!

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I AM A WOMAN WHO SPEAK UP HER MIND!!Yes,I am a woman and I speak my mind up.I don't mind to put forward my opinions.Any problem??? I don't care at all!!!! We all speak about women empowerment,but the matter of fact is now also there are thousands,lakhs,crores of women of our country who even can't imagine the word empowerment associated with them,it's just an illusion for them.Why is it so in that the country where we worship goddesses thousands,lakhs and crores of women suffer the wrath of the society because they are women ?????? The hands which fold infront of goddesses are often raised on women to dominate her,to suppress her voice.We often have heard the line that  ''MEN DON'T CRY'',it will be much better if we teach the young boys and men of our society that ''MEN DON'T MAKE SOMEONE CRY''. Today also,even after when we women proved that we are not less than men in any field,women do face discrimination when it comes to equal p…

WAITING.......

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WAITING....
Every other person in this world is waiting for something or someone.Some are waiting for their dream job,some for their soulmate,some for their friends,some for their dream home and car,some for their favourite dress,some for getting married,some for having kids,some for the boring lecture to end,some for their results,some for getting someone's attention,some are waiting for justice and many more.
 All of us are waiting for different things but the thing which we all have in common is that we all are waiting for our time,our turn,we all are waiting for everything to be perfect in our life.
The person who is waiting for his result is tensed,the person waiting for his/her lover is excited,the person waiting for the job joining letter to come is thrilled. The thing is every person goes through different emotions while waiting. Waiting actually comes with mixture of lot of emotions.
Waiting teaches us the value of a lot of things especially the value of time. When we wait for …

MEMORIES ARE LIKE RED WINE!!!!

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MEMORIES ARE LIKE RED WINE!!!!
In this beautiful journey of life every time we come across new circumstances,places,people or we experience something they remain in our minds as memories. I guess memories are something we keep with us in our heart and mind throught out our lifetime but memories of every first thing done by us or happened with us is different and unique in its own sense and always remains in our minds.

Any thing on earth that we came across for the first time is memorable because its unique in its own sense and they make us aware of a particular thing for the very first time in our lives. The time we spent with our dad and mom. The time when we used to go to school. The time we spent with our friends. The time we used to stand for hours for prayer in our school ground. The numerous number of times we stood on stage and performed infront of the audience. The time we stood first in the class and got the highest marks. The time we got our dream job job. The time we first cooked…

HOW IS IT TO REALIZE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO DIE ONE DAY?????????

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HOW IS IT TO REALIZE THAT YOU ARE GOING TO DIE ONE DAY????????? WE ALL KNOW THAT EVERYTHING THAT IS BORN ON THIS MOTHER EARTH WILL SURELY DIE ONE DAY,EVERYTHING THAT GOT CREATED OVER HERE IN THIS MOTHER EARTH WILL SURELY GET DESTROYED ONE DAY.WE KNOW THAT WE WILL ALSO DIE ONE DAY BUT THEN ALSO WE ALL DO FEAR DYING,WE ALL WANT TO BE IMMORTAL WHICH WE KNOW IS JUST IMPOSSIBLE.What if one fine morning we will leave all our fear of dying and will realize that we all will die for one day??? I guess that will be one of the best realizations we will ever have. We all know everything that may happen or will happen but then also there are many things which we fail to realize or often we don't want to realize them at all because they scare us,they make us unhappy,they make us stand still with fear with trembling hands and cold feet.But isn't it the best to have the realization that we humans are not at all immortal,we all are just like actors on stage who are here on this mother earth to do…

CONFIDENCE Vs INSECURITIES

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CONFIDENCE Vs INSECURITIES Hello dear readers!!!!So,how many of you have insecurities??? I guess we everyone have insecurities within ourselves which is nothing but an inner devil.When we will be having inner demons then how is it possible that we will win with the demons present in enormous amount in the world.
It is this thing called insecurity which hampers our confidence,which don't let us to gain the confidence and courage to fight with the world for ourselves. We all do have insecurities but we all should try to win over them.We all have that fire in us to excel just we need to reach the ignition point where our fire is going to give us the boost up in our life.
I had a lot of insecurities about myself but that insecurities led me no where.What they did was that they made me weak,they made me someone who fear a lot,who don't have confidence and courage.But the day i got that if I want to become something in life i need to fight with all my insecurities and have to win over th…

SEEK RESPECT NOT ATTENTION

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SEEK RESPECT NOT ATTENTION Every day or the other many of us try to seek attention from someone whose attention we want to grab.We want them to notice us,to give importance to us,to love us but in this very process many a times we forget that there is a thing which is called as self respect.Some people want attention from their friends,some from their boyfriend/girlfriend,some from their respective spouses.Why is it so that we need to make them realize about  our presence.In this process of seeking attention many a times we end up doing weird things without getting the fact that if we have importance in their lives then we will definitely get their attention because it is all about priorities.

Now a days we post everything on social media starting from pictures with our friends to our spouses to our parents to our pets,we also posts on social media when we are sad or we have some problems with a eye catching caption on it to get the attention of our social media friends,among whom many …

HAPPINESS IS ACCEPTANCE

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HAPPINESS IS ACCEPTANCE
Every or the other many of us wake up in the morning with lots of complaints regarding all those things which we don't have.Many of us have the thought in our mind that what are all those things we have and what are all those things we don't have.Even I always have thoughts like these.But the matter of fact is these thoughts leads to nothing but unhappiness in our lives.It's really good that all of us wants to achieve things which we don't have now but day by day this is leading us to become unhappy persons,who are damn unsatisfied with their life.
I feel someone have really true said that acceptance is the key to happiness.More we accept our life and keep moving ahead accepting it more we will be happy in all our lives. Yes it's absolutely true that many of us don't have all those things which we desire and crave for but always complaints for all those things which we don't have will lead us no where.It will be easy for us to move ahea…

MY PERFECT COMPANION

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MY PERFECT COMPANIONPerfect Companion??? Who's that??? I think for me the perfect companion is that  very person/thing in our life which have neither have demands nor have complaints with us,who accepts us the way we are,who just will be there with us no matter what are the circumstances. 

For me the perfect companion is the one with whom you are the most comfortable,you don't need to loose your individuality,with whom you are you,with whom even travelling long distances become short and enjoyable,with whom you can speak your heart out,who always compliments you,who always stands with you no matter what the circumstance is.
I feel very few of us have the privilege of having a perfect companion in our lives.Some of us have their siblings,someone of us have their dad or mom,some of us have their friends or best friend,some of us have cousins as their perfect companion.But for me my perfect companions are my books and my pillow.It is my books which made me today whatever I am.Someon…

SILENCE SPEAKS!!!!

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SILENCE SPEAKS!!!!Silence speaks!!!!!
What?????????????
What a joke!!!!!!Just impossible!!!!! I mean how can silence speak at all????????????? Crazy!!!!!I guess after reading the name of the topic many of you must have got thoughts like this.Correct???????But I say that yes SILENCE ALSO SPEAKS,AND SOMETIMES IT ALSO SHOUT LOUDLY.Let's today talk about it and find out that how can silence speaks.

So,let's find out how is that so by some real life circumstances that we all must have encountered atleast once in our lifetime. How many of you believe that a person always speaks the truth in two conditions:- Firstly when he is angry and secondly when he is drunk. Can you think of why that is so? I feel that it is so because when a person is angry or is drunk his/her mind really shout out loudly and speak all that things he/she had kept in his/her mind for a long time and have never got the opportunity to speak up all those things.The time when the person is angry or is drunk his/her mind do…

LIFE!!!!!!!

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LIFE!!!!!!! Life!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!What's that????????????????????Let's discover today!!!!!! 
 Life is like a rainbow and a garden,rainbow because it have different colours in it which resembles different situations of our life which have several ups and down,several moments of happiness and sorrow,several moments to cherish the whole life,several people to love and respect,several moments of accomplishment and what not,and garden because i guess we come across different people in our lives in different situations and they all are like the different types of flowers and plants present there in the garden which are of different colour,have different fragrance and physical appearance and behaviour,some we like some we don't like at all but at the end of the day we find a reason that why once they were there in our lives.I believe each and every person we met in our lifetime actually teach us something important about life. I guess life is beautiful when we make it a w…

TIMELINE OF MY LIFE TILL DATE

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TIMELINE OF MY LIFE TILL DATE
Hello my dear blog readers.First of all a very big thank you to you all to took out some time from their busy schedule and read my blog's post and today within just few days have 1.1k reads and counting.This is really overwhelming. This post is all about my entire experience as a human being till date.This post is dedicated to all my lovely readers for their unconditional support.

 Well,I came on this mother earth on 30th September 1997 as a girl child in a Bengali middle class family in Kolkata,India.And now i am very happily 19 year old,haha(wink!!!!). For me my life was always full of ups and downs,but i guess ups and downs are really an important part of our life,they makes us stronger even more. Though from my childhood I was very bright in studies and co-curriculars.I remember i always used to be among the toppers of my class starting from the very beginning.I learnt music,dance,art as a child(starting from when i was 4 years old) and also several co…

TIME !!!!!

TIME !!!!!Sometimes time teach us such big lessons of life which one can never learn from any other resources.Unlike our exams where first we learn then we are examined,in our real life we first go through the exam,then we learn the lesson. The best thing about time is it passes away and gradually heals our pain which many a times medicines fails to do.Time make us forget all our pain and sorrow gradually and help us stand strong.Toughest time of our lives make us understand that who are our true friends and who are not.Time taught us that everything and everybody in this universe in momentous.If today we are sad,tomorrow at some point of time happiness will also be there in our lives,if it is night now,then there will be day again.Time teaches to stand us alone and stand still when no one is there for us and also taught us to face all the challenges with lot of courage and assured us that  our time will also come,just we need to try,try,try again.Time taught the secret of learning and…

WHAT IT IS TO BE FROM A MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

WHAT IT IS TO BE FROM A MIDDLE CLASS FAMILY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Hello everyone out there.Thank you all for reading my blog.
Today i am going to share some of my experiences of being from a middle class family which i think many of you will relate you especially if you belong from a middle class family.
So what is the meaning of middle class,i guess its that category of people in our society who are neither poor neither rich.They neither sleep hungry in nights nor they go everyday to five star restaurants.These people neither live in huts nor in lavish multi storied building.These people are actually those who generally belong to the educated part of the society who generally go for jobs(exceptions are there).
Being from a middle class family the most important thing i came across was the value of having a good education which comprises not just the formal education where
we are going to school,having good mark,going to colleges,then job and so on rather education is something which co…